The 2004 Anderson High School Reunion (class of 1984)
One of my high schools had a reunion at Scholtz's Biergarten, and it turned
out to be really rather cool. Although I didn't recognize even close to
everybody, there were a number I did remember, especially some cohorts from
the engineering-prep honors physics class a bunch of us were in under the
esteemed Mr Lynn; our cheerleader Dana Parker, tall and gymnastically
unhindered by it (and as outgoing, attractive and determined as ever, it
seems), Billy Sederholm, and others.
Me, in elementary. Yes, I'm a blonde. ;-)
But the real surprises were from further back, like
finding out that my girlfriend in 3rd(?) grade,
Lisa Pyland, is still sweet and refreshing to be around,
and grew up to be quite as attractive as an adult as I ever
thought she was then. The girl who is one day younger
than I, Suzanne Hardin, was also there, with similar effects.
They're both quite unsurprisingly married, and there's a cute
tale of one watching her son golf at a competition, desperately
wanting to cheer, with her husband holding her to the ground
by her shoulders to prevent her breaking her son's concentration (again).
To my frustration, my cellphone camera managed to
enthusiastically destroy the pictures I snapped of these
two very photogenic women, so I can only hope Lisa's pictures
from the event turn out, and that I'll have a chance to scan them..
Too bad the girl I was smitten by in fourth grade, the pretty Norwegian
from Oslo named Solveige Aas, didn't somehow appear as well. My elementary
school social life would have had better representation - and from a
language perspective I probably could have talked with her, now.
On the sad side, it seems that one girl from elementary, Gina, can still
remember my teasing her about her laugh. I think I thought she was cute
then, so it was probably just the only excuse I could think of to talk to
her. It would be shameful to have a shy misexpression of interest end up
scarring someone instead.. I feel guilty, especially since there wasn't
anything wrong with her laugh to start with, it was just distinctively
hers. I wonder if taking her out to dinner nearly thirty years later
would make up for it somewhat, or even be a welcome suggestion.
Later, as a high school senior.
Back on the high school side, the reunion did lead to a lot of interesting
conversations, compulsive picture taking, an unexpected binge of chatting
in German with a couple of folks, an so on. So, overall, a pretty good
time.
Presumably there will be another such event in September or so, where
there's some inconceivably small chance my mostly-unrequited first love
interest from high school, and good friend for years, Julie McDougall,
might appear. But most of the really complex social interactions for me
were after I switched high schools for my senior year, so wouldn't be at
the Anderson reunion, but rather at Westwood's - the beautiful german girl,
Katrin Herzog I went out with until she returned to Germany (and then once
day again ten years later in Germany), my second and thankfully
requited second love, Janet Oncken, still a good friend thirty+ years
later, all the thespians and other musicians, etc.. Of course, I've
already run into a good number of them, at the drama reunion a
year or so ago. :-).
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