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ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING.........By Francie Baltazar-Schwartz
      Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate.  He was always in a
good mood and always had something positive to say.  When someone ask
him  how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be
      He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had
followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the
waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural
motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there  telling
the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.
      Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up  to
Jerry and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person
all of the time. How do you do it?"
      Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry,
you have two choices today.  You can choose to be in a good mood or  you
can choose to be in a bad mood.'  I choose to be in a good mood. Each
time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose
to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time  someone comes
to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or  I can
point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of
     "Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.
     "Yes it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut
away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react
 to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose
to be in a good or bad mood. The bottom line : It's your choice how you
live life."
      I reflected on what Jerry said.  Soon thereafter, I left the
restaurant industry to start my own business.
      We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice
about life instead of reacting to it.
      Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are
never supposed to do in a restaurant business:  he left the back door
open.  One morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers.
While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness,
slipped off the combination.
     The robbers panicked and shot him.
     Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local
trauma center.
     After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was
released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his
      I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked  him
how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins.  Wanna see
my scars?"
      I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone
through his mind as the robbery took place.
      "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have
locked the back door," Jerry replied.  "Then, as I lay on the floor,  I
remembered that I had two choices:  I could choose to live, or I  could
choose to die. I chose to live."
      "Weren't you scared?  Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
      Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great.  They kept telling me
I  was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency
room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I
got really scared. In their eyes, I read, 'He's a dead man.' I knew I
needed to take action."
      "What did you do?" I asked.
      "Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me,"
said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied.
The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I
took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!'  Over their laughter, I   told
them, 'I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."
      Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because
of  his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the
choice to live fully.
      Attitude, after all, is everything.
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